Membesar bersama serta sering berkongsi suka duka, seorang wanita sukar menerima hakikat apabila adik kandungnya sendiri berkahwin dengan bekas suaminya. Menurut wanita itu, hasrat pasangan berkenaan pada awalnya tidak direstui keluarga, namun mereka tetap membuat segala persiapan majlis sebelum selamat bernikah pada 19 Julai lalu.
Benda ni berlaku setahun sebelum penceraian…Ia hadiah yang mahal
Berkongsi lanjut mengenai perkara itu, Mas Anne berkata memang berlaku beberapa insiden yang menimbulkan syak wasangka ketika dia masih bergelar isteri kepada lelaki berkenaan. Antaranya, pada sambutan hari lahir adiknya, bekas suaminya menghadiahkan sebuah kamera Insta360 (harga mencecah ribuan ringgit). Walhal Mas selaku isteri sah hanya mendapat kek dan hadiah biasa (topi keledar motorbike) pada hari jadinya.
Eh, kau rasa Madi & Anna ada apa-apa ke? Madi asyik jemput Anna balik kerja
Saat itu, muncul rasa terkilan yang amat mendalam sehingga dia pernah mempersoalkan pemberian itu. Enggan terlampau melayan perasaan, Mas bagaimanapun memilih untuk terus bersangka baik dan beranggapan tidak mungkin adik kandungnya akan berbuat sedemikian. 2 bulan selepas penceraian berlaku, ada ahli keluarga lain tiba-tiba memaklumkan kepada Mas tentang kedekatan bekas suami dan adik kandung mereka.
Mereka sangat romantik, depan keluarga makan suap-suap
Mas Anne berkata, adiknya mengaku sedang menjalin hubungan cinta dengan bekas abang ipar ketika datang melawatnya di hospital sewaktu dia menerima rawatan akibat endometriosis. Paling mengejutkan, pasangan itu juga tidak berselindung dan terlihat mesra ketika berkumpul dengan keluarga. Mereka seolah-olah tidak memikirkan perasaannya sebagai bekas isteri kepada lelaki berkenaan.
Mas : Are you dating Abang Madi?.
Anna : Yes.
Mas : Why are you doing this? He is my ex-husband. You’re hurting me.
Anna : Tak salah apa? Tak haram apa? Mas & Abang Madi kan dah cerai. I cannot live without him, we can’f apart from each other.
@masanne89 I’ve been receiving comments saying that I cheated and that I was the problem in my marriage. I’m not here to deny that my marriage had problems. It did. There were mistakes on both sides. We are divorced today because of issues that only the two of us fully know. Contrary to what some people may think, my ex-husband himself acknowledged his shortcomings towards the end of our marriage, apologised for them and even wanted to reconcile before our divorce was finalised. I made the difficult decision not to. I have videos, messages and conversations that support what I’ve shared. However, I have consciously chosen not to disclose them because I do not wish to turn my divorce into a public spectacle or expose private matters that should remain between two former spouses. My silence should not be mistaken for dishonesty. But I think many people are missing the point of my videos. I’m not asking the internet to decide who was the better spouse. I’m not asking anyone to hate my ex-husband or my sister. I’m simply sharing what grief looks like when your own sibling marries your former spouse. Two things can be true at the same time. I can acknowledge that I was imperfect in my marriage, and I can still feel hurt by my sister’s decision. I don’t need to be the perfect victim to talk about betrayal. Healing does not require me to rewrite my marriage as entirely his fault or entirely mine. It also does not mean that I must stop grieving the loss of a relationship with my own sister. This is not a divorce exposé. This is simply my healing journey.#sistermarrymyexhusb
KREDIT : TikTok masanne
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