Siapa yang tidak mengenali pasangan “public figure” iaitu Aisyah Hijanah dan suaminya Alif Teega. Mula dikenali ramai dengan kisah cinta yang dipupuk selepas berkahwin, mereka kini telah dikurniakan sepasang cahaya mata iaitu Khadijah dan Hassan. Keluarga ini seringkali menjadi inspirasi kepada netizen terutamanya para pengikut mereka.

BACA: Tiba-Tiba Rebah, Aisyah Hijanah Sebak Jadi Saksi Pemergian Kuda Hadiah Suami

Wujud orang ketiga dalam rumah tangga

Seperti yang diketahui ramai, Aisyah Hijanah dan suaminya seringkali memuat naik rakaman serta gambar yang memaparkan kemesraan mereka sebagai suami isteri. Meskipun demikian, tular baru-baru ini mengenai kisah rumah tangga pasangan itu yang dikatakan sedang dilanda masalah akibat kehadiran orang ketiga. Lebih mengejutkan,  individu yang cuba merosakkan hubungan mereka ialah dari kalangan pekerjanya sendiri.

@aisyahhijanah

#bismillahimasyaAllah Alhamdulillah Alif & Aisyah makin baik. Sebenarnya hal ni jadi 2 minggu lepas & slowly kami heal I thank Allah for sending me this ‘ujian’, so I become closer to my mother, mother-in-law, friends & staff. I always mind my gap with everyone. But this test has taught me to have a ‘connection’ with people. Good people exist. And I believe in keeping my circle small & not trusting people too easily. Some people will take advantage of your kindness. And it is happening to me right now. I almost lose my husband to someone who I really being kind with The pain I endured was indescribable. Many times, I tried to pack my stuff & leave everything, but I just couldnt do so. As a wife, our home is the place we should stay & not leaving without husband’s permission. Every night, I talked to Allah “Ya Allah beri aku petunjuk. Andai perlu aku pergi ataupun baiki”. This verse kept blooming in my mind, and all I wanted was a hope from Allah. Should I stay or leave? My heart felt like leaving, but at the same time, I knew there must be a chance if Allah wills & never open any space for strangers in our hearts In my 6 years, I shut any space for strangers to get into it. They see me as arrogant, but I see it as a respect for my husband. I know, as a wife, I have a lot of things to improve. The main thing is, dont be overcare to someone. Some people will take our kindness for granted After this issue, me & Alif become more cautious to everything. And, Alhamdulillah, everything has turned out as it should be. And, I really hope this will stay forever. We have a lot to learn. Alhamdulillah for this test, you have no idea how much I’m thankful to Allah, and all those good people around me, especially my mum, my mother in-law, my friends, my staff & even followers. I owe you the same kindness. You’re there during my tough times & will always be in my heart. As a wife, it’s my responsibility to Allah to stay loyal to my husband no matter how much hardships I will face. You cannot buy the value of loyalty, until you lose it one day. In Shaa Allah, my loyalty will remain until the rest of my life

♬ Rumah – Dalia Farhana

Sanggup menipu demi mendapatkan simpati

Melalui hantaran yang dikongsikan oleh Aisyah menerusi akaun Instagram miliknya, pekerja tersebut telah menipu mereka semata-mata untuk meraih simpati. Menurut ibu kepada dua orang cahaya mata itu, pekerjanya memberitahu bahawa dia telah kehilangan kedua ibu bapa dan juga adik kandung. Bukan itu sahaja, dia juga sanggup memalsukan dokumen pemergian ayah serta mengaku ibunya sebagai mak cik. Lebih membimbangkan, wanita itu menyatakan bahawa suaminya telah memukul dia sehingga menyebabkan tangannya patah.

Terkantoi confess pada Alif.. Sudi jadi isteri kedua

Namun begitu, nasib tidak menyebelahi wanita tersebut. Penipuan itu terbongkar apabila Aisyah mula menyedari tindak-tanduk perkerjanya. Setelah diselidik, ternyata tindakan yang dilakukan adalah untuk menarik perhatian dan simpati Alif semata-mata.

Lebih menyedihkan, Aisyah mendapat tahu bahawa orang ketiga tersebut telah meluahkan perasaan kepada Alif serta mengaku bahawa dia sanggup bermadu demi memiliki hidup seperti majikannya dengan bersuamikan lelaki yang menjadi idaman ramai.

“Alhamdulillah, Alif dan Aisyah makin baik”

Menyedari akan kemelut rumah tangganya yang semakin membimbangkan, Aisyah telah mengambil jalan untuk membawa suaminya berjumpa dengan beberapa ustaz sebagai ikhtiar untuk memulihkan keadaan. Menurut Aisyah, hubungan mereka menjadi sedemikian akibat daripada hasad dengki yang timbul daripada pekerja tersebut.

@aisyahhijanah

#bismillahimasyaAllah “Kenapa Aisyah jarang post berdua dgn Alif?”
Aisyah rasa sepanjang 6 tahun kahwin, inilah yg paling mencabar. Mentally & physically exhausted, mencabar iman & kesetiaan apatah lagi dalam kesihatan tubuh badan yg sgt terhad. Tak ada pasangan yg nak hadap perkara ini. Tak ada pasangan yg nak hadap pendatang luar masuk ke dalam keluarga. But it’s happening to us, and I have to be strong to face this. Otherwise, we’ll lose this battle. 
In 6 years, I have never allowed anyone to get into my heart. Because I know, this is a respect for my husband. And, no men dare to get closer to me. I really mind my gap & distance from men. For me, my husband deserves 100% of my love, heart, care & attention. I don’t seek attention from other men, it’s totally a foolish thing to do as a wife. And other women should respect the gap too. If you know that it is someone’s husband, dont you ever dare to flirt or even pretend to be mentally unstable to seek attention & care.
At first, it was so difficult for me to bear everything. I didnt know how many tears dropped from my eyes, how much pain I endured. Everything was so painful for me. I lose weight to 44kg. People kept asking “Aisyah kenapa susut?” and I didnt have any answer to those. For me, I looked physically normal, but for people who saw me often, they saw me changing. 
Betul kata orang, hari isteri jarang salah. Aisyah mula rasa sesuatu yg tak kena. Dan, bila Aisyah tanya pada ustaz, ada yg kata nampak sesuatu pada Alif dan ada niat seseorang utk merosakkan rumah tangga. Wallahu a’lam. First, I brought him to see Ust Syafiq, if that would help. And, after we’re diagnosed, it was ‘ain hasad dengki’. Ada yg nampak macam-macam lagi, ada juga yg tak nampak apa-apa. For me, I didnt know because I couldnt see it with my naked eyes. Alhamdulillah lepas balik, dah bincang & buat apa ustaz suruh, I saw improvements in him. But, my pain continued. I lived in that misery for almost 2 weeks. And, I couldnt give up now. No matter what, I needed to fight for my marriage without another person coming into the picture. Second, I brought him to Ust Halim, and my efforts didn’t stop there. We went to Kelantan to see Abah (Azza’s father) and Alhamdulillah all ‘bad things’ had already diminished
Ust said, something happened to us & eventually will destroy the marriage if we’re not strong enough for each other. In this case, I make Wirid Sakran a daily routine & keep motivating myself to stay strong & believe Allah will give us the very best. He’ll turn us back to what we used to be. That time, I was physically & mentally in pain. Losing appetite, weight, but trying to show another persona of ‘nothing happens’ at the office & social media. Doing live streams like how I used to.
This will take time to heal. But if we’re strong for each other, we’ll win this battle. Our hearts are Allah’s. He can give you ‘love’ and take it back anytime. Thank you to whoever is involved (you know who you are) for supporting me along this journey. I wouldnt have done this far without you. Friends, in-laws, staff, you guys are my strength.

♬ Dawai (From “Air Mata Di Ujung Sajadah”) – Fadhilah Intan

Semoga sampai Jannah Aisyah dan Alif

Menjengah keruangan komen, rata-rata netizen terutama pengikut Aisyah dan Alif meluahkan rasa simpati terhadap apa yang berlaku pada rumah tangga mereka. Kebanyakan daripada warganet turut berdoa serta memberi semangat agar Aisyah terus berjuang demi keharmonian rumah tangga mereka.

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